Building a Clearer You: Living with Greater Self-Clarity

This year, we are exploring techniques and strategies for self-knowledge. January has been a month of courageous looking inward. If you are following this blog, we have explored our biases, examined the stories we tell ourselves, practiced self-distancing, and built routines and strategies that help you see your inner world with more honesty and compassion.Continue reading “Building a Clearer You: Living with Greater Self-Clarity”

How to See Yourself Objectively (Even When It’s Uncomfortable)

Honest self-reflection, seeing our true selves, can feel threatening because it challenges the image that we have of ourselves now. It can often create conflict in how we confront flaws and past mistakes. It can also contradict our values, trigger vulnerability, and even fear of social consequences. All of which can hold us back fromContinue reading “How to See Yourself Objectively (Even When It’s Uncomfortable)”

The Halo Effect: How First Impressions Shape Your Reality

You meet someone at a party, and you see this person as attractive, so you like them right away. Why do we trust someone instantly? The halo effect is a bias. Why talk about biases? What purpose is there in digging deeper into our unconscious judgments and habits? The purpose is to improve the qualityContinue reading “The Halo Effect: How First Impressions Shape Your Reality”

Solomon’s Paradox: Why You’re Wiser About Others Than Yourself

What if I told you that you already possess all the wisdom you need to solve your toughest problems? You will need to learn to step outside yourself and apply this wisdom to your life. King Solomon of ancient Israel (970-931 BC) was known the world over for his wisdom and fair justice. His kingdomContinue reading “Solomon’s Paradox: Why You’re Wiser About Others Than Yourself”

The Illusion of Self-Knowledge: Why We Misunderstand Ourselves

“Seeing Yourself Clearly” This month, we step outside of ourselves to see our lives with clarity. We will explore why humans struggle with self-perception and why clarity requires intentional effort. Most of the suffering in our lives comes not from who we are, but from who we think we are. We will examine some ofContinue reading “The Illusion of Self-Knowledge: Why We Misunderstand Ourselves”