The Theme for this month’s blog is about the person you are versus the person you believe you are. In November, we will talk about identity, doubt, and the stories we tell ourselves. I continue to return to the difference of opinion between how I see myself and how others see me. I have toContinue reading “The Identity Gap: Why We Struggle to See Ourselves Clearly”
Category Archives: Clarity
Becoming a Curious Human: A Lifestyle of Openness and Discovery
What curiosity has to do with the person you become is a matter of living wide awake. Curiosity is not a tool; it is a way of living. A child’s curiosity is limitless, and with no expectations, it is simply curiosity to learn about – EVERYTHING. Somewhere along the way, we learn to shed aContinue reading “Becoming a Curious Human: A Lifestyle of Openness and Discovery”
Everyday Curiosity: Turning Routine Into Exploration
Routine can restrict our outlook. We arise, blindly follow our paths, do the tasks for the day, and, unless we’re paying close attention, stop really seeing what’s right in front of our noses. Routines are fast, but they also subtly restrict our world. They save brain cells, but they warp the routine world around usContinue reading “Everyday Curiosity: Turning Routine Into Exploration”
The Streetlight Effect Revisited: Curiosity as a Tool for Seeing More Clearly
Curiosity has a way of tugging us beyond the edges of what feels familiar. In March, we explored the streetlight effect, our tendency to search for answers only where the light is good, where solutions feel convenient. A place where our habits have already shaped a path. But the deep truth is that growth seldomContinue reading “The Streetlight Effect Revisited: Curiosity as a Tool for Seeing More Clearly”
The Curiosity Zone: Where Growth Actually Happens
If there’s one superpower that’s woefully undervalued in the life of any human, it is curiosity. It is unobtrusive and whispers; it is quiet and easy to disregard simply because it doesn’t shout but rather nudges. But it is those nudges that drag us to places beyond us; to possibilities we haven’t even considered andContinue reading “The Curiosity Zone: Where Growth Actually Happens”
Choosing What Matters: A Framework for Meaningful Priorities
It is a challenge to understand what’s truly important. This month’s theme has been about moving from distractions, bypassing the trivial to claim clarity. It has shown just how effectively the contemporary world can detach us from that point. The overwhelming nature and variety of our modern world’s complexity can tire our minds and divideContinue reading “Choosing What Matters: A Framework for Meaningful Priorities”
The Law of Triviality: Why We Obsess Over the Small Stuff
What is the Law of Triviality? The Law of Triviality says that organizations and individuals pay far more attention to, and spend a disproportionate amount of time on, trivial, insignificant topics than on complex, important issues. It is a psychological dead end that traps us where easily done becomes the thing that gets done. ThisContinue reading “The Law of Triviality: Why We Obsess Over the Small Stuff”
The Cost of Distraction: Why We Focus on the Wrong Things
September is a month when we leave summer behind and adopt a back-to-business mindset. It is a time to reset our priorities, our expectations, and our intentions. This is going to be a month about what matters most, about the complexity of life. The intention is that this series of posts will lead you fromContinue reading “The Cost of Distraction: Why We Focus on the Wrong Things”
How to Make Better Decisions When the Future Is Unclear
Why decisions feel hard We rarely see decisions as purely intellectual problems; rather, decisions are both internal, emotional, and cognitive. Our brains are ancient surviving machines built to make predictions about the future. When you are missing data points, your brain actually relates to a lack of information the same way it would fear forContinue reading “How to Make Better Decisions When the Future Is Unclear”
The Pain of Loss: How Fear Skews Your Decisions
Far more of our everyday behavior than we think is dictated by loss aversion. This is an ancient survival instinct governing modern behavior. Loss aversion will affect what we cling to and what we shun, influencing how we make our choices and how we approach risk. The goal of today’s discussion is to uncover theContinue reading “The Pain of Loss: How Fear Skews Your Decisions”