“All things in moderation, including moderation.”
– Socrates
This is part four of a focus, clarity, consistency, moderation, and balance series. We need to focus on gaining clarity and consistency to keep moving in a positive direction. Viewing well-being with moderation is a philosophy and a practical tool. As a tool, moderation is a practical method for achieving balance and avoiding extremes. It is also a part of our philosophy because it encompasses a broader way of thinking about life.
Socrates advises us it is best not to have too much or too little of anything. Aristotle theorized that extremes of both deficiency and excess lead to moral decline, with moderation being the key to a healthy and productive life.
The “Great Conversation” is a metaphor that describes the ongoing dialogue and exchange of ideas between great minds throughout history, particularly in fields like philosophy, literature, and the arts. It emphasizes the interconnectedness of thinkers and how their ideas build upon and challenge each other across centuries. It underlines that moderation is present in both philosophical and religious discourse.
Viewing moderation as a virtue is essential for a balanced and flourishing life. Here, moderation means more than simply avoiding extremes. It’s about using reason and wisdom to make sound decisions and to avoid being carried away by excess or deficiency.
The golden mean is the preferred midpoint between two opposing extremes: excess on one hand and deficiency on the other. It appeared in Greece as early as the Delphic maxim, “nothing in excess,” which was discussed in Plato’s Philebus. It is a philosophical approach to ethics that emphasizes finding the appropriate medium, or middle ground, between extremes. Many cultures share similar ideas, notably in the teachings of Jewish scholar Moses Maimonides’ Middle Way principle. Buddhism’s “middle way” emphasizes balance—avoiding both extremes of self-indulgence and self-denial, or attachment and detachment.
Positive psychology says moderation is the key to long-term well-being and flourishing. The emphasis is on balance and avoiding extremes in the different areas of our lives. Cultivating positive emotions, engaging in meaningful activities, creating healthy relationships, and accomplishing goals are essential to achieving well-being.
Today, practical ethics, religion, politics, and personal health are all influenced by the principle of moderation between the two extremes. The golden mean or middle way is often applied to personal health by promoting balance and moderation in various aspects of life.
How can you use the Golden mean or middle way to improve your well-being and life satisfaction? A balance between managing extremes in consuming food, engaging in activities, and sleeping too much. Some principles suggest that enjoying things in appropriate amounts is key to a balanced and healthy life.
Moderation of diet and nutrition would be a balanced approach to eating. Instead of extreme dieting or overeating, eat moderately to maintain your health without deprivation or excess. In exercise, inactivity can harm our overall well-being, but there is harm in overtraining. Going to the gym five hours a day is extreme unless you are training for the Olympics. For most people, finding the middle ground through regular, sustainable physical movement that fits their lifestyle.
It is just as critical to balance our emotional responses, where excessive stress or complete detachment is harmful. Maintaining our psychological well-being helps us to regulate our emotions. Practices like spending time outside in nature, our self-care programs, and mindfulness, like meditation or journaling, can help us find the balance.
The golden mean supports a healthy balance between work or education and personal life, preventing burnout while ensuring productivity. There may be times in our professional careers when we are required to spend more time at work, such as on special projects. However, eventually, too much time at work can cause burnout and harm our relationships at home.
In caring for our health, moderation is essential; overusing medications can lead to dependency, while neglecting medical care can heighten conditions. A balanced approach ensures appropriate treatment without excess. It is also important to remember that misused medicines can harm your body by causing long-term damage. For your health care, rely on your medical professionals, ask questions, and take your medications properly. Moderation could save your life.
Finding balance in daily activities
Make it a practice to pause and reflect on how to become aware of your decisions. Are they the middle way? We want to work toward a healthier mindset in all things. As Socrates said, “All things in moderation, including moderation.” Create a deeply integrated philosophy into holistic health and wellness, fostering sustainable and personalized balance.
What are you giving up if you spend three hours a day in the gym and only have a limited amount of free time? What have you traded to build big muscle? Relationships or goals that can improve your future. It all depends on who you want to be. What are your current activities and duration for which you should focus your attention? Is this what will get you to be the person you want to be?
Conclusion
Moderation is balancing actions, thoughts, and feelings, avoiding extremes and excessive behaviors. Something excessive is more than is needed or reasonable, frequently causing harmful effects.
Moderation and balance are closely related. Moderation refers to avoiding extremes, such as having too much or too little of something; balancing is a harmonious distribution of different elements, activities, and responsibilities in one’s life.
The golden mean principle could be used in navigating our daily choices, working toward the middle ground between extremes. Moderation can be a component of balance. A balanced diet involves moderating different food groups. Practice moderation in work, spending, and time, along with social time.
Recognize your extremes, asking when something is too much. Finding moderation in food, exercise, sleep, political views, socializing, work, and play.
Excessive behavior characterizes Christian theology’s seven deadly sins: pride, greed, lust, envy, gluttony, wrath, and sloth, and shows a lack of balance. To live a balanced life, one must avoid these sins, even if moderation isn’t taught explicitly.
Recommended Reading
Life In Moderation: The Art Of Creating Balance, Boundaries And A Better Life, Timothy Cheadle III
Faces of Moderation: The Art of Balance in an Age of Extremes, by Aurelian Craiutu
Moderation is Key: A Good Balance for a Healthy Lifestyle, by Oghomwen Jones
Your Life in Moderation: A Guide for the Most of Us, by Gibran Oliver
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