“Tell a man there are 300 billion stars in the universe and he’ll believe you. Tell him a bench has wet paint on it and he’ll touch it to be sure.” – Unknown This is classic reactance: the moment someone senses a limit on their freedom, they feel an internal pushback, a little spark ofContinue reading “Stop Telling Yourself What to Do: The Surprising Reason You Rebel Against Your Own Plans”
Category Archives: Goal Setting
Parkinson’s Law: Why Your Work Takes Longer Than It Should
You open your laptop to write a one sentence email, a quick project update, you know you can complete it in seconds. You’ve got an hour before your next meeting, so why stress? However, the work silently expands as you debate, writing the salutation and sign-off, and rewrite the middle section three times, confirm aContinue reading “Parkinson’s Law: Why Your Work Takes Longer Than It Should”
The Pareto Principle: Finding the 20% That Changes Everything
It’s hard to spot the precise moment the business of low-impact activity took over your day. You’re sitting down with a plan, a coffee, ready to tackle something of value, and an hour has somehow slipped away on emails, straightening, checking schedules, and managing other busywork. You are busy, yes, but there is no reliefContinue reading “The Pareto Principle: Finding the 20% That Changes Everything”
The Mid‑Year Reset: Refocusing on What Matters
Stop doing more — start doing what matters most Most people arrive in June feeling stretched, not because they failed, but because life filled the space where their intentions once lived. Our year began with such a strong start, but the daily hustle of the world has a tendency to either drown out our goalsContinue reading “The Mid‑Year Reset: Refocusing on What Matters”
Designing a Life That Moves Forward on Its Own
Momentum has been on my mind this month, not the booming, inspirational kind, but the silent, physics kind. The kind that describes how one simple action, once started, just sort of seems to propel itself forward. How one day just feels different when something is already in motion. I’ve been noticing how much we justContinue reading “Designing a Life That Moves Forward on Its Own”
The 2-Minute Rule: The Science of Getting Started
Basically, if it takes less than two minutes, do it now. This rule is a gateway to habit formation. After all, we become what we practice consistently. You will be surprised by how much you can complete in only two minutes. What is the two-minute rule? According to the Two-Minute Rule, simplified by David AllenContinue reading “The 2-Minute Rule: The Science of Getting Started”
The Stories You Live By
A month about the narratives that shape identity, emotion, and possibility. The narratives running your life What drives our internal narratives? There are moments, blasts of mental replays. These narratives are unconscious, internalized stories shaped by our culture, family, and past experiences. These stories define our identity, thoughts, and behavior. Someone does not text youContinue reading “The Stories You Live By”
Your Constants: Grounding Your Mind’s Eye for 2026
As we approach the new year, we stand at a familiar crossroads, one that is full of possibilities and uncertainty. The sense of a new beginning, a chance to realign. The turning of the calendar can tempt us to imagine that change arrives automatically, but the truth is we design our lives through the choicesContinue reading “Your Constants: Grounding Your Mind’s Eye for 2026”
The Power of Feedback and Continuous Reflection
Self-evaluation is not something we do and put away. It is a continuous cycle. I have always believed that evaluating ourselves is a solitary sport. However, with age, I have learned that it is essential to seek external feedback as part of the process. Our personal evaluations are subjective, based on our assessments, which areContinue reading “The Power of Feedback and Continuous Reflection”
Self-Directed Living – Turning Evaluation into Action
Let’s approach this topic as a workbook. You will find links to deeper exploration. If you really want to dig deeper into who you are, please take time to read these blogs. However, do not forget to come back and complete this section. We are building your story and momentum to move into 2026. ThisContinue reading “Self-Directed Living – Turning Evaluation into Action”